Why is it so hard to find real friends in a hyper-connected age?

People in our generation have grown up with greater access to social networks than ever before. With one swipe, we can talk to someone on the other side of the globe. And yet, even as it has become easier to meet people, making real connections has become harder for many Gen-Z individuals. Why is this the case? And what can we do to change it?

Sincerity is always the best policy. Many times, we would rather keep something to ourselves than speak our minds simply because we think it might upset the other person. That is no way to build a long-lasting relationship. When we interact, we need to accept that some beliefs we hold might be different from those of the other person. That does not mean we should become shape-shifting chimeras just to keep the outward appearance of peace. Sincerity is the most important element in any relationship, while lies and insincerity always lead to doubt and insecurity.

Accept every aspect of a relationship: the good, the bad, and the in-between. Friendship isn’t just about going to a few parties together or texting ‘how are you’ every couple of days, it’s about opening up to each other and letting vulnerabilities show knowing the other person has your back. This means being willing to share our true selves, including our fears, dreams, and imperfections. By doing so, we create a safe space for others to do the same. Only then can we find true friends, online or in real life.